There she is.  Your sweetie-pie.  The love of your life.  Your reason for living.  Yet, you just wish that she was just a little more…wilder.  As in a more of a stone freak between the sheets.  A lady in the public arena and a wanton slut behind closed doors.  But it is entirely possible to transition your girlfriend from Sweet Polly Purebread to Sasha Grey 2.0?

Subtlety is everything, as you don’t want to come right out and say, “Baby, you are one boring lay.”  Because she’ll break up with you right then and there.  The key is to do this gradually and under the radar.  Follow these steps according to need, and you’ll have a true blue horndog on your hands.

It is possible that your girl may have hidden body issues.  She’ll wear jeans in the summer instead of cutoffs, a wrap and a one-piece  instead of a bikini.  Tough territory here, so you’ll have to be persistent yet gentle.  Whenever you are alone with her and know that you won’t be disturbed, get her naked and hide her clothes.  Be playful and compliment her best features…a few kisses here and there reinforces those good feelings.  Let her roam your apartment naked and assure her that no one can see her.  When she’s comfortable with the idea of going clothes-less, test that by calling one of your buddies over secretly.  When he knocks on the door, see if she runs into the next room as if she was on fire.  Or if she takes her time and at the same, acts all coy and stuff.  Don’t expect this to happen in one night, as you should keep at it until you think she’s keen at the idea of complete nudity at the drop of a hat.

An excellent way to help break your girl out of her shell is the good ol’ digital camera.  Take candid shots of her.  What girl doesn’t like pictures?  Even we she’s protesting about how bad she looks at the moment, some kind and reassuring words should make her feel better.  Engage in both fun and suggestive poses.  Don’t suggest the nude pics right away until you are sure she’s comfortable with her clothes off.  Lots of girls look great in a wifebeater T-shirt and panties and a sexy smile.  Have fun with them and keep them in your private collection.  The fact that she has some naughty pics out there is a boost to her ego and has her thinking she’s a wild woman.

The way she dresses is okay for family gatherings, going to church or to the gym, but her wardrobe could use a little…hey, don’t front, a lot of sexing up.  The best way to approach delicately is to peruse through something like a Victoria’s Secret catalog and show her some things.  Victoria’s Secret is going to be your friend in this endeavour, so get your wallet ready.  Start off with the less sexy stuff and see if she likes them.  Then move on to the bras and panties.  Find one she’d like, casually dismiss, and suggest something sexier.  Get it for her.  Whenever she wears it, make lots of reminders that you know what she has has on underneath and that you can’t wait to get to them.

Take her to the mall and head to one of those sexy boutiques.  Here, the salesgirl is your wingman, of sorts.  Ask the salesgirl what she thinks would look nice on your girl.  Be a little frisky with her, even suggest following her into the dressing room.  Pick out the outfit(s) that you like.  She may like something that is, um…less than sexy, so kibosh that immediately.  Use the salesgirl as backup.  Soon, she’ll be buying her own sexy gear once she gets the picture and feel comfortable about wearing it.

A surefire way to stoke her latent inner fires is to constantly put her in a sexual mindset.  The trick is to be naughty instead of raunchy.  Send some provocative (but not over the top) text messages to her throughout the day.  Place little dirty love notes in her purse.  Invite her out to lunch, and feel her up under the table.  If she protests, call her a prude.  Better yet, a spinster (for some girls, them’s fighting words).  Take a lot of opportunities to give her a light tap on her ass.  She should enjoy that.  Take part in some light PDAs.  Save the heavy stuff when you are alone.

(Next issue : taking her sexy transformation up a couple of notches)

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